Avoiding Repeat Meetings: Simple Solutions for Moving Forward

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Sim Loh is a family partnership coordinator at Children’s Village, a nationally-accredited Keystone 4 STARS early learning and school-age enrichment program in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, serving about 350 children. She supports children and families, including non-English speaking families of immigrant status, by ensuring equitable access to education, health, employment, and legal information and resources on a day-to-day basis. She is a member of the Children First Racial Equity Early Childhood Education Provider Council, a community member representative of Philadelphia School District Multilingual Advisory Council, and a board member of Historic Philadelphia.


Sim explains, “I ensure families know their rights and educate them on ways to speak up for themselves and request for interpretation/translation services. I share families’ stories and experiences with legislators and decision-makers so that their needs are understood. Attending Leadership Connections will help me strengthen and grow my skills in all domains by interacting with and hearing from experienced leaders in different positions. With newly acquired skills, I seek to learn about the systems level while paying close attention to the accessibility and barriers of different systems and resources and their impacts on young children and their families.”

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It was over two decades ago, yet it seems like yesterday. I was meeting with my colleagues about an exciting new venture. We were going to develop a playgroup for children and their families. We were meeting to discuss the logistics. This was our first planning meeting and it was two hours long. We began by brainstorming lots of ideas: purpose, length of the playgroup, day of the week, time of day, information to be shared, facilitator schedule, roles and responsibilities, resources, etcetera. The room was filled with energy as we bounced around ideas. We thought through every option. Next, we discussed advantages and disadvantages of the options which quickly led to critiquing and negating ideas. We went round-and-round, finally landing on a plan. And, by the end of our meeting we were even more excited than when we began.


Two weeks later we gathered together again to proceed with our playgroup plans. However, as we began our meeting it was clear that we had all forgotten most of the final decisions we had made at the previous meeting, and no one had moved forward to put our plans into action. I became more and more frustrated as we ultimately repeated our first meeting all over again. Looking back, this could have easily been avoided by following two practices.


  1. Recording Meeting Minutes. If someone had recorded minutes from the meeting we would have had a record of our final decisions and the context and rationale behind them. This would have informed the next meeting agenda. Had we done this, we could have reviewed the minutes and completed any assigned tasks prior to the next meeting, making us more prepared to get started on the next phase of our planning.
  2. Creating an Action Plan. An action plan can be informal or formal and involves determining the course of action to be taken. Formal action plans often include:
  • identifying a goal,
  • specifying objectives to meet that goal,
  • determining the people, time, and resources needed, and
  • establishing evaluation checkpoints.

Action plans may seem time consuming, yet they can be done relatively quickly, and in the long run they are likely to save you time. Consider how much time my team wasted during the first meeting, making decisions that went nowhere and then, spending time rehashing our discussion during the second meeting. Having an action plan would have allowed us to start our conversation where it had ended, rather than revisit it all over again.


If you have suffered from “Repeat Meetings” you may want to consider recording minutes and creating an action plan to guide the planning process. Action plans help ensure your objectives align with your goal and can serve as a guide for assigning tasks and thinking about all the possible resources to assist in your endeavor. Recording minutes and creating an action plan are simple solutions to keep your team moving forward in accomplishing tasks.


A sample action plan can be found here:

https://irp.cdn-website.com/9f82c1c2/files/uploaded/Hndt-Action-Plan-3rd-Ed-BLANK-Brnd.pdf


Jill Bella, Ed.D., is Director of Professional Learning for the McCormick Center for Early Childhood Leadership and Assistant Professor of Early Childhood Education at National Louis University (NLU). In these roles, she oversees professional learning, conducts research, and consults for local and state initiatives on the Early Childhood Work Environment Survey (ECWES), the Program Administration Scale (PAS), the Business Administration Scale for Family Child Care (BAS), and leadership topics in early care and education. Dr. Bella is also the co-author of several books and trainer’s guides including A Great Place to Work, Inspiring Peak Performance and Building on Whole Leadership. 

By Sherry Rocha June 12, 2025
Bullying has been around for ages. That doesn’t mean it’s ok, or we should get used to it. It is a persistent problem for all ages, and now it’s reaching into our early childhood programs. What can program administrators do? Some definitions and tips are below. WHAT IS BULLYING? Bullying has been described as a student’s repeated exposure to negative actions on the part of one or more students in which there is an imbalance of power between bullies and the victim. Some children learn that by bullying others, they can get ahead. It can affect the goals of education if not handled well. While the behaviors of young children can sometimes be aggressive, they lack the more strategic and deliberate actions that typically define bullying. Still, early behaviors can be precursors to later behavior, so awareness and positive interventions are needed . Bullying prevention can be embedded into SEL practices, diversity awareness, and behavior guidance practices of early childhood programs. HOW COMMON IS BULLYING? Most studies look at bullying as something that involves older children. Research on early childhood bullying is still developing. The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program (OBPP) is considered one of the most effective school-based anti-bullying programs that schools and centers study. Its founder, Dan Olweus, Ph.D, found that 35-40% of boys characterized as bullies in grades 6-9 had been convicted of at least three officially registered crimes by the age of 24. Bullies sometimes teach their children to be bullies. PREVENTION AND GUIDANCE CONCERNING BULLYING There are things parents, teachers, and friends can do to prevent or stop bullying . During the early childhood years, programs to help prevent bullying are helpful. Teachers and parents should be role models of caring behavior. Children raised in safe and nurturing environments will learn to be caring individuals. As children’s abilities develop, they can learn anger management, problem-solving skills, and decision-making skills. TEACHERS AND PARENTS CAN ALSO: Dispel myths that bullying is part of childhood. Encourage a positive environment by stating desirable behavior instead of negative behavior. Emphasize respect, fairness, caring, and responsibility in classrooms. Incorporate lessons about appropriate social skills in classrooms and everywhere; provide words for children to use. Understand the seriousness of bullying. Encourage children to consider the needs of others. Parents can arrange play groups for their children. A COMPREHENSIVE PROGRAM SHOULD: Promote a caring, respectful environment Help victims help themselves Challenge the bullies’ thinking Consider the effects of peer pressure Elicit students’ input FOR FURTHER INFORMATION: Assistant Secretary for Public Affairs (ASPA). (2025, February 5). Get help now. StopBullying.gov. https://www.stopbullying.gov/resources/get-help-now The Institute on Family and Neighborhood Life. (n.d.). Olweus bullying prevention program, Clemson University. Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, Clemson University. https://clemsonolweus.org/ Temkin, D., & Snow, K. (2015, August 18). To prevent bullying, focus on early childhood. NAEYC. https://www.naeyc.org/resources/blog/prevent-bullying-focus-early-childhood
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